Half Duplex Ego.
In my career as a planner, I have trotted out two different Steve’s when interviewing people in discovery. The first is the “I’m a quick study” Steve. This Steve wants interviewees to know he’s savvy in the business, the market and the category. I wouldn’t call him cocksure, but an air of self-assuredness is the goal. The second Steve is the “Help me, help me, Steve.” He plays grasshopper to the interviewee’s Mr. Miyagi. Not in an obsequious way but as someone in need of intense category nourishment.
There are times and places for both, E.g., when interviewing a subject matter expert (SME), they want to know you can understand them. But for the most part I tend to use the “help me” Steve. More so as my planning experience grows. We humans are a helping and nurturing clan. And people tend to be more open when they are helping. It’s always best to have your interviewee be the smart one.
Our mission is to extract learning, attitudes and values. Open the faucet and let insights pour forth. Half duplex ego is the goal.
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Decency and Annoyance.
I wanted to flame a senior care organization my mom spent time in and was looking for a Yelp or Google kind of comments page in the senior care space. I found something called Senior Advisor, who baited me with a couple of comments then, in order to get to the 4th review, requested my name and tel. number. Almost before I finished typing the form, the phone rang. I kid you not. It was someone from Senior Advisor. I asked if they were that fast and she said, yes. “Some of our seniors need help right away.” Nice response.
This in not artificial intelligence (AI), but it’s pretty darn impressive. And intrusive. And scary.
I can’t get my email to send instantaneously and this lady was dogging me about my mom is nanoseconds. Privacy isn’t just about spam and selling lists, it’s about decency. I loathe robo calls from unsolicited vendors. I don’t much like door-knockers. Email spam I can live with, so long as there is a way to unsub.
Smart brands and smart marketers understand annoyance. No brand wants to be annoying. So why is there so much of it?
Senior Advisor bordered on annoyance. But for now I will give them a unsettled pass. Now, if they could have told me how to ding my mom’s senior care place…
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